On the other hand if you expect them to initiate anything too raunchy they often become too self conscious to really enjoy it.
It's important to note however that we're looking only at sun signs here.
The key to this is that they often prefer a confident lover to take the controls and initiate things, and if this is the case in your relationship then it's likely you'll mesh very well - few Aries have a problem with it.
Often the more you can make your Virgo feel like "an innocent bystander" to your kinky designs, the less inhibited they are.
Generalizing too far based just on sun signs can therefore be misleading.
To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them we need to calculate those other planet placements from their date of birth, and compare them to your own, and then interpret the results.
)In these and other examples the key is to step back and look at your partners motives. You are going to need to take things slow initially, and may want to read up on Virgos (links at bottom of this page) as they often don't like to rush into relationships - which can give mixed signals.
If you don't mind being a little patient in this area this one has 5 star potential.
You prefer to take a back seat and focus on things such as efficiency and details.
Given the opportunity this is a partner who will probably organize your life, removing all the annoying and trivial details you hate.
Don't be offended by that - it's being done in a productive way and not a controlling way (I know personally i'd welcome it!
Pretty much everything you hate, they excel at, and vice versa making for a perfect match if you can stay on the same page.
To give examples of the difference in viewpoints: You may find your partner is particularly critical of you, and it may lead to a fight or two, until you realize they say things not to be petty or annoying, but because they genuinely want to improve you, and help make you 'totally perfect'.