And it’s been an education—and a relief—to learn I’m not the only hopeless romantic with a Y-chromosome.In fact, I’ve found that men harbor just as many romantic fantasies as women.Rumor has it that they’re misogynistic, controlling and philanderers.But let’s be real, what ethnic group of men can we not say that about?
Open your heart, and indulge in sweet romantic moments every now and then. And just when their lips spread into a happy smile as they look into your eyes, you’d realize your effort was all so worth it! So what is this Yankee girl going to tell you about dating a Jamaican.And in my short life, there are few things I’ve picked up when it comes to relationship dynamics.That doesn’t mean I haven’t noticed differences between the sexes: Women seem to view romance as a state of being, while men tend to look at it more as a sequence of specific actions. And a BIG difference is that women get much more excited about planning their wedding (even before they have a particular bridegroom in mind).But it may be comforting to know that when it comes to the thrills, chills and spills of mating in the 21st century, men are equal and eager participants.